What If They Leave?

The Pain of People Walking Away

Few things hurt a pastor more than watching people leave.

Sometimes they leave quietly.
Sometimes they leave loudly.
Sometimes they leave for good reasons.
Sometimes for reasons that are shallow, sinful, or simply unclear.

You’ve poured into their lives.
You prayed with them.
You baptized their children.
You sat beside them in the ER.
You planned their wedding, led their small group, or counseled them through a dark season.

And then one day—they’re gone.
A short text.
A vague email.
A sudden silence.

And your heart asks the same haunting question: “What did I do wrong?” Continue Reading….